Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Trying to Get Back Into the Swing of Things

Well it turns out that 2011 was a much more difficult year than I anticipated.

What I had thought would be an exciting year of change and new opportunities turned out to be a year fraught with tears, turmoil and uncertainty. I wish I could say I held up well and thrived in the trial, but sadly that cannot be said.

I was a mess!

I'm still a mess.

But, now somewhat hopeful that as this New Year begins I can pull it all together, right some of the wrongs of last year and turn myself around and see how God is working it out for good.

One thing is for certain, I am ever thankful for the love and support of a wonderful Godly husband who holds me up when I can no longer muster the strength to stand.

I look forward to writing more about life and love in the days to come.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

A Sexy Easter Egg Hunt

Learning to take advantage of Holidays is a wonderful way to add a little spice to your marriage and bless your amazing spouse. It is the perfect time to give sexual treats, play sexy games, and mix things up. Easter is no exception!

This is a fun little game, with potentially big benefits!

You take Plastic Easter Eggs, just like the ones you put out for your children, and put little sexy suggestions or commands inside them and then hide them around the house. You will want to go with your spouse as they look for the eggs, as they find each egg have them open them up and do what's written on the paper inside. This can be a tame or as wild as you want to be!

Some suggestions…

Remove an article of your clothing.

Remove an article of my clothing. (I usually do enough of these to leave us both naked at the end of the Easter Egg Hunt!)

Describe for me your favorite part of my body… then kiss me there.

Show me where you most liked to be kissed. (Then kiss them there)

Run your hands over my body… linger at your favorite place.

What is your favorite position, and why?

Ask me about my favorite position!

Tell me why you love me.

What is your favorite thing about sex? (The answer may surprise you)

Ask me anything!

Kiss me softly.

What can I do to be a better lover?

What is your ideal number of times to have sex in a week? (Discuss your expectations and figure out if this can be reasonably accomplished) However, do NOT ask this if you don’t really want to know, otherwise the fun will likely end immediately!

I usually put out one egg that is of a completely different color and hide it so it is found last, inside it says… Make love to me, right here right now!!

These are only suggestions. As always only do what you are comfortable with. This is meant to be fun! And you may find you learn something new along the way. As I said earlier, only ask or suggest those things you feel you or your spouse will be comfortable with. Your goal is to build intimacy!

The one caution I do give is this, it is very important that you know how many eggs you are using and that they are all found!! You don’t want to find yourself explaining what *&@X%^% is to your children! So put the kids to bed early or send them to grandma’s and have a wonderful time!


Monday, April 18, 2011

Oh my goodness it's been a WHOLE MONTH since I've posted anything! Yikes! Sorry, but life has thrown me a few curve balls as of late, and isn't going to let up any time soon. I confess that when life gets crazy I fail miserably at taking care of the extra-curricular things, such as this blog. I will have an exciting Easter suggestion to post in the morning, but for now please forgive me for failing to stay on top of things here at A Little Something Spicy. I expect things to settle down for me by the end of May or early June, so please be patient with me 'til then. Thanks! SpicyB

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

A Spicy St. Patrick's Day To You

Ahhhh, St. Patty’s Day! (Said with my best Irish accent) The Irish have so many wonderful traditions, so I thought I would take one or two of them and tweak them just a bit to add a little something spicy to this year’s holiday.

Did you know that one of the reasons men carry their brides across the threshold is because the Irish feared if the bride should trip and fall upon entering her home it would be bad luck for her marriage.

Did you also know that it is customary for the Irish to prank newlyweds on the night of their wedding making it difficult for them to “consummate the marriage.” Because of this annoying tradition the newlyweds would try to sneak away unnoticed, and thus the tradition of tying cans to the bumper of the car to thwart just such an escape.

One more Irish Tradition I found interesting was the giving of a bell as a gift to the bride. In Irish tradition the ringing of a bell was thought to keep evil spirits away and thereby bless the marriage.

It is also said that Irish women are very assertive when pursuing a man. They are not shy when it comes to approaching men, and they are not shy once they have them where they want them.

And possibly most interesting of all is that fact that Irish men are much more conversational. It is said that since Irish men are well aware that the Irish women want them they don’t waste their time on building strong physiques in order to attract a woman, but rather devote their time to developing their intellect and quick wit. Because once a woman spots the man she’s interested in he’d better be able to keep her once she starts talking to him.

There you have it, a small and by no means exhaustive, lesson on Irish Tradition. So with that said, I’m going to take those last little tidbits and tweak them just a bit for my purposes here.


Most women love to give and receive gifts that have significance to them. In honor of the Irish Wedding Tradition I think it would be really cool to give your wife a small bell as a gift for St. Patty’s Day. Along with the bell you might include a note of praise and blessing about your marriage. The bell needn’t be expensive, just something thoughtful and heartfelt. You can typically find something like this at a Hallmark or similar type gift store.


Now for something “spicy!” As I said earlier, Irish women are kind of aggressive when it comes to their men. They like to take charge and don’t shy away from trying new things!! So… I am challenging you girls to take charge! Maybe even try something new and naughty. I hope you’re up to it, here goes.

Start early in the day by driving him wild with anticipation.

You could wake him up by snuggling up close to him and kissing his neck while caressing his body until he becomes aroused, whisper in his ear that there is more to come tonight. (And yes, it’s okay to leave his urges unsatisfied as it’ll just make sex that much better for him that evening).

Next give him a nice long look at your naked body as you dress for your day. And might I suggest a long lingering hug while still in the buff. Imagine yourself standing there completely naked hugging your husband while he’s fully dressed. It will drive him crazy! (*This would be a perfect time to slip a few peppermints into his pocket.*)

From there, send him some sexy messages throughout the day and tell him exactly what you’re going to do to him! Naughty, naughty things. Greet him in the evening with a long wet *peppermint* kiss. Press his hands against your body and remind him again how “Lucky” he is to have you.

Be creative and sexy with what you wear in the bedroom… you can go with some sexy St. Patty's day lingerie or quite possibly just as enticing is a man’s dress shirt with nothing underneath, or a simple green necktie with some sexy heels and nothing else. Fabulous!

Just before bed, suck on a peppermint and then rub it on areas of your body you want him to kiss. It’ll be a sweet and tasty surprise.

So that’s it Girls. You are in charge. You make the first move and all the moves that follow. Treat your hubby to a St. Patrick’s Day he’ll not soon forget!

*To help you stay focused on the sexy task at hand, put those peppermints in a bowl on your counter or desk and pop one in your mouth throughout the day as a reminder of the sweet and spicy sex you are going to treat your hubby to.*

The great thing about adding the peppermints is that from now on every time he sees or sucks on a peppermint he’s going to think of you and remember this night.